The fast-paced world we’re living in today offers technological advancements that make our life easier and more convenient. The Internet is one innovation that, since its inception, has become everyone’s favorite tool for finding information, entertainment, and love.
Love on the Internet can be found in several websites that provide dating services. Indeed, online dating has reached new heights with the invention of the webcam and the proliferation of dating websites that offer different features to its customers. With the click of a button, you too can become a member of these sites and enjoy the perks of virtual dating.
Many people prefer online dating than real, live dating because of the advantages it has. For one, dating online is safer, especially for women who often have to deal with malicious glances and lascivious physical contact. You and your date are separated by a computer, with a keyboard and/or a webcam that serve as your only communication tools. Except for rude comments that you might get from insensitive daters (who, by the way, are often immediately banned from dating websites once they’re detected or reported), you’re sure not to be harmed in a serious way.
You also don’t have to deal with the usual hassles of going on a live date, such as dressing up and commuting. In online dating, all you need is a reliable Internet connection and you’re all set to go. You can go on an online date wherever and whenever you want. It’s easy and really won’t cost you much.
Most people’s primary reason for going on an online date is the anonymity that this form of dating offers. You don’t have to tell your date your real name or your real profession. You can be anyone you want to be. The mystery adds to the excitement of dating someone you only know in cyberspace.
But like any other thing that involves matters of the heart, online dating also has its disadvantages. While the absence of physical contact can provide protection, it can also hinder an intimate relationship. You’ll have to content yourself with emoticons, photos and other images (for chatting), or videos (for webcam dating). Anyone who’s ever experienced a long-distance affair, which thrives only on letters and phone calls, know that nothing compares to human touch and togetherness when it comes to keeping the flames of romance alive.
The anonymity involved in online dating can also be a double-edged sword. You’re not the only one who’s embracing a different persona online – your date might be doing the exact same, too. You could be dating a maniac, an ex-convict, or even an axe murderer. This is no big deal as long as you stay online, but when an eyeball is set and you go out to meet your date in person, then you could be putting your life in danger.
Online dating is fun. Just follow the rules of your host website, and only agree to date for real in public spaces and with a chaperon.
Article by Marvin Perry
